Saturday, January 23, 2010

Congratulation Messages For Mothers Who Have Just Given Birth Should I Cut Contact With My Mother Who Has Emotionally Abused Me My Entire Life?

Should I cut contact with my mother who has emotionally abused me my entire life? - congratulation messages for mothers who have just given birth

My mother is emotionally abused me my whole life through destructive comments, his addiction and neglect. Even if I am a good child, she told me that the devil was going on for me and I was scared! I have rarely physically abused, (fitted with safety belts a few times minor), but still threatened to knock "his teeth into his neck when he was unhappy as he spoke. She played bingo every night and on weekends in Atlantic City play, and I went with people for weeks at a time without having to leave. Even if the family I had lived there only 20 minutes, you'd think he was too busy to attend because I had to to play bingo. When I complained about, he told my family that I am an ungrateful troublemaker and turned against me. Now I have 28 am and decided to flee because he was sabotaging my marriage plans. I returned to the News hatred, instead of congratulations from family members, because I "ungrateful" to this awful woman.

18 comments:

hotlips said...

I have about these things, because I thought the same thing with my mother. First, remember that these are their problems and decisions. You have done nothing wrong and it must be the same. You can still see the mother she never had. And you will see that the love that had disappeared from his mother will also come. If there is a question of harm to you or someone else, yes, cut off the contact is the best. It has its own problems, it has on you. Sometimes the lock phone or from time to time in its time and space can be better for both. If you're like me, and I was hurting her mother and her thirst for love, fear that his absence may be helpful advice! Certainly not a good situation and should not be abused. If this is the origin of such a degree that causes constant pain / frustration and limitation of time does not help, then you may need to cut all ties together, at least so long can not be accepted. Good luck!

dee said...

I know that this woman is his mother, and so on, but it seems you have to give your life to its capacity for change and a mother to you. I think it's time to say goodbye and cut. It sounds terrible, but it does not sound like it will never be satisfied with it, for all this suffering for you.

mediahon... said...

I have problems with my mother. I learned during my visit and she tells me something that I consider most of the line, just get up and go. It breaks my heart. But I do. It is better for me. But there are a couple of times I drove 150 miles at 10.00 clock over a distance between us.

Angie C said...

i dont think so think he has done in the past somethings always forgive and forget, no matter what she always your mother, what will one day, an account of what it does hurt and have to be a change of heart

Angie C said...

i dont think so think he has done in the past somethings always forgive and forget, no matter what she always your mother, what will one day, an account of what it does hurt and have to be a change of heart

Mimi said...

Not because it's your mother and you know I love to give you the world, but if you are old inuff can not get to go home or something.

Amber G said...

Depends when the brake say about the progress of your life, I so, so the only thing marriage .... My wedding was a terrible struggle between parent groups and regret not having run away. I'm glad that I did not. Good luck! and congratulations!

Violet Pearl said...

Should I cut contact with my mother, my whole life has emotionally abused? YES

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mgerben said...

Sounds like a horror story.
But that makes it easy to remove the links, right?

Try something like this:
You have tried it, and ask what his way for 28 years.
Why not try a different approach, a few years?

becca_2 said...

First, I want to go to the board, because there deep feelings in you that you go and yes, if this will help their chains with her mother and their family members who believe that their crazy stories. Pulling garbage when you were younger, perhaps thinking he would see what he does not have to see her so rather than ruin your marriage leave to change his number and separate ties.
Good luck and good luck.

becca_2 said...

First, I want to go to the board, because there deep feelings in you that you go and yes, if this will help their chains with her mother and their family members who believe that their crazy stories. Pulling garbage when you were younger, perhaps thinking he would see what he does not have to see her so rather than ruin your marriage leave to change his number and separate ties.
Good luck and good luck.

toofavor... said...

Cut to lose. look if the value of life, if you lose your husband, and reduce the loss now, in addition to aree, if it works. Think about what you get from a piece of me.

Courtney Marie said...

They in turn should beat her with belts! It is an abuse in prison and can bet on that! In other words, if you want it to go to jail! It was time to see you and **** like that! It is my opinion that Mr. f-stop to speak again, and perhaps not return, because it's not my job to do so! It's yours if you want it! But to cut contact with your mother! Exactly what to do! If you want to keep talking about the e-mail then sexybratcourtney2008@yahoo.com me luck! Best wishes to you from me and my family

Courtney Marie said...

They in turn should beat her with belts! It is an abuse in prison and can bet on that! In other words, if you want it to go to jail! It was time to see you and **** like that! It is my opinion that Mr. f-stop to speak again, and perhaps not return, because it's not my job to do so! It's yours if you want it! But to cut contact with your mother! Exactly what to do! If you want to keep talking about the e-mail then sexybratcourtney2008@yahoo.com me luck! Best wishes to you from me and my family

I HATE ANIMAL ABUSE!I said...

OMG! I am sooo sorry for you! PEOPLE ARE SOOOO CRUEL !!!!!!!

I do not think you should call them! Although decide your life and your mother. It is very sad.

Weezilmo... said...

One of my parents had a child with a dominant mother. He has affected his life and his marriage. Luckily was able to get help, and have remained married. The solution? Just to see her mother once a month for 1 hour. Max That's all. He is in contact with him only by 1 clock.

However, with other parents, may, must surrender their contact. I know it hurts, but remember that what goes around comes around. You can rise up against their mother. Do not let your friends know why you keep your distance, say you're doing with your life. Try to stay strong.

HM said...

Yes, please contact please. Before you do, you must accept the fact that they are for what I might be awarded in the past. Understanding this, it must apologize to you anyway .... .. However, you must be able to accept themselves, already awarded, and ready to go. Put the damage, equivalent to ... in the past. If it .. NOW and something terrible happens to it. You'll never have the chance again and to pay the infamous ... "What if?". No need to carry emotional baggage with them. And you?
Report once for all, then away on their own if necessary to achieve those.
If it does not feel the same, if that's your problem and your conscience is free from emotional. Get on the situation and the best person I can. Not better than his ... but better than now (not so bad .. get ?)... simply by addressing this issue.

flieder7... said...

We need to break all contacts. Change your phone number unlisted and do not give your phone number to third parties. This woman is not an unfair and deserves consideration. She is a tyrant and the best for you and your wife, cut all contact. There are toxic people in the world, and we must avoid a happy and peaceful lives. Let them play bingo to your heart, and she likes Bingo love you more. I had a selfish mother and I know how you feel. You have to be good for you.

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